It is a common thing, when you see a familiar person, and he or she ask you: ‘how are you?’. Your answer is 9 out of 10: ‘good, I’m busy with different projects.’ And after this question we continue our conversation, like nothing happened. Strange, right? We never have the courage to ask: ‘how are you really?’. It saves one word but you create much more connection with the person who’s sitting across the table.